Really Playing Well

Many years ago, I had a parent who was not easy to please. He was not happy with how we were doing and certainly not happy with how I was coaching. (This was not the first or last time there has been an unhappy parent.)

Toward the end of the year, another coach at GHS ran into the unhappy parent. According to the other coach, "He says you guys are really playing well." The compliment was surprising, and the assessment was interesting.

We were a little below .500 that season, but we had won something like 4 games in a row. Thus the comment that we were "really playing well," would seem appropriate. It just happened the end of our schedule included games vs. four teams who were all well below .500- Canton, Macomb, Quincy, and Monmouth. Today only Quincy is even still on our schedule.



Were we indeed "really playing well?" Not really, but we were indeed playing teams who were not very strong that season.

What made me think about this?

At the beginning of this season, we lost games with Washington, Queen of Peace, Bloomington, and Normal West on the non-conference schedule. We added New Trier, Jacksonville, Maine South, and Manual. New Trier, Jacksonville, and Maine South all have 6'3"+ centers being recruited on DI level. Knowing the strength of these teams, I realized our record might not be as good as the year before. I told our players in the summer we would have a tougher schedule, and I would not have done it if I didn't think they had the toughness and maturity to handle it.

At the end of the year, I had poorly set up our schedule. We had a stretch which included:
Normal U-High- #12 in 3A
Morton- #6 in 3A
Rock Island- #6 in 4A
UTHS- 2nd in WB6
New Trier- article in Tribune about their "hot second half"

We lost all 5 of these games. I don't list them to say, poor poor Galesburg, or as an excuse for losing. But I mention who we played down the stretch to say we were playing very good teams.

Years ago, when we were playing easy games, some saw it as we were "really playing well." This year when the coach set up a poor sequence of games vs. tough teams, it would have been very easy to say we "really are playing poorly."

The reality is we lost 5 games in a row. But I don't think anyone in Western Illinois challenged themselves with a stretch like this, and for that matter this season.

It would wear down teams if they are not tough. I really think it has just made our players tougher and more committed. Looking forward to the tourney!!

Unlocking Your Full Potential: The Art of Really Playing Well
In the realm of sports, games, and life itself, the pursuit of excellence is a common thread that binds us all. Whether you're an athlete on the field, a gamer at your desk, or someone striving to perform their best in any aspect of life, the concept of "playing well" goes beyond mere skill. It encompasses mindset, preparation, perseverance, and a dedication to constant growth. In this article, we'll explore what it truly means to play well and provide insights into how you can unlock your full potential in any endeavor.

The Essence of Playing Well
Playing well isn't confined to winning alone. It's a holistic approach that involves giving your best effort, constantly improving, and embracing the challenges that come your way. It's about pushing your boundaries, adapting to different situations, and learning from both victories and setbacks. Whether you're on a sports field, in a virtual world, or facing life's challenges, playing well means embodying certain key principles:

1. Mindset Matters
The foundation of playing well is a positive and growth-oriented mindset. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, setbacks as lessons, and success as a result of hard work. A resilient and open mindset enables you to stay motivated, focused, and prepared for whatever comes your way.

2. Preparation and Practice
Behind every remarkable performance is a foundation of preparation and practice. Whether it's honing your skills, studying your opponents, or preparing for life's challenges, the effort you invest off the main stage significantly impacts how well you'll perform when it matters.

3. Resilience in the Face of Adversity
Setbacks are inevitable, but how you respond to them defines your journey to playing well. Resilience involves bouncing back from failures, learning from mistakes, and using adversity as a stepping stone toward improvement.

4. Continuous Learning
Playing well is a journey, not a destination. Embrace a mindset of continuous learning, seeking out new strategies, techniques, and insights that can elevate your performance. Stay curious and open to new ideas.

5. Focus on Process, Not Just Outcome
While the outcome is important, focusing solely on results can lead to unnecessary pressure and anxiety. Shift your focus to the process—the steps, efforts, and strategies that lead to success. When you concentrate on doing things right, the results often follow suit.

Strategies for Playing Well
Now that we've established the core principles, let's delve into strategies that can help you play well in any domain:

Set Clear Goals
Define specific, measurable goals that provide direction and purpose to your efforts. These goals should be challenging yet achievable, motivating you to strive for excellence. Break down larger goals into smaller, actionable steps.

Embrace Deliberate Practice
Deliberate practice involves focused and intentional efforts to improve your skills. Identify your weaknesses and work on them systematically. Seek feedback from coaches, mentors, or peers to refine your techniques.

Develop Mental Resilience
Cultivate mental toughness by practicing mindfulness, visualization, and relaxation techniques. These tools can help you manage stress, maintain focus, and perform well under pressure.

Learn from Role Models
Study individuals who excel in your chosen field. Analyze their strategies, work ethic, and mindset. While you should aim to emulate their positive traits, remember to stay authentic to your own journey.

Embrace Failure as Feedback
Failure isn't an endpoint; it's a valuable source of feedback. Instead of fearing failure, view it as an opportunity to learn and grow. Analyze what went wrong, adjust your approach, and come back stronger.

Stay Consistent
Consistency is key to playing well. Make a habit of practicing regularly, staying committed to your goals, and continuously pushing your limits. Small, consistent efforts over time lead to significant improvements.

FAQ's About Playing Well
Q: Can anyone learn to play well, or is it only for the naturally talented?
A: Playing well is a combination of effort, mindset, and practice. While natural talent can provide an initial advantage, consistent practice and a growth-oriented mindset can lead to remarkable improvements for anyone.

Q: How do I overcome self-doubt and fear of failure?
A: Self-doubt and fear are common barriers to playing well. Cultivate self-awareness and challenge negative thoughts. Focus on your strengths, set achievable goals, and view failures as learning opportunities.

Q: Is playing well solely about individual performance?
A: Playing well can involve both individual and team performance. In team settings, effective communication, collaboration, and supporting your teammates are essential aspects of playing well together.

Q: How do I stay motivated when progress seems slow?
A: Progress may not always be linear, but small improvements accumulate over time. Celebrate small victories, remind yourself of your goals, and find inspiration from your journey and the achievements of others.

Q: Can playing well lead to burnout?
A: While striving for excellence is admirable, it's important to find balance. Overexertion can lead to burnout. Prioritize self-care, set boundaries, and listen to your body and mind when they signal the need for rest.

Q: Is playing well only relevant in competitive settings?
A: No, the principles of playing well can be applied to various aspects of life, from personal relationships to professional endeavors. It's about giving your best effort and continuously seeking improvement.


Playing well is a mindset, a commitment, and a journey. It's about embracing challenges, cultivating resilience, and dedicating yourself to constant growth. Whether you're on the field, in the virtual arena, or facing the challenges of life, the principles of playing well remain the same. By setting clear goals, practicing deliberately, and nurturing a positive mindset, you can unlock your full potential and truly excel in whatever you choose to pursue. Remember, playing well isn't just about winning—it's about becoming the best version of yourself.




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